Hi all, thanks for making me feel so welcome, wish i had joined earlier, would have made those stressfull times a bit easier having a group to share them with! but better late than never hay!

Squidipa: i dont mind being called Becka atall grace startles herself so easy aswell! its good that you have moved up a size in nappies, makes you really notice how much they have grown when you go to put an outfit on that used to fit and now is to small!! And i had a little laugh at your story about getting peed on! the other day i picked Grace up out of her car seet and wondered why she was wet, thought it must have just been dribble and didnt look, got in the house and went to put her down, lets just say it wasnt dribble and it wasnt wee!!!!! thank god we were home and not going out as it was all over me and her!!!! YUCK!!!

MT: Thanks for the advice! I have tried all the different types of wraps, the swaddle me and a big muslin one, also the velcro ones, small, medium and large, same result with all, both arms fully out!! she must be strong, or just really wiggly!! last night i re-wrapped her while she was still asleep and she went till 1pm so will just have to keep trying that! Will try leaving one arm out and see what she thinks of that! She cant roll over yet so guess its not to much of a problem yet. thanks

Beema:Grace has her Imms on monday, im dreading it!! we both just sat there last time, she screamed then sobed for ages and i sobed....she had a urinry tract infection at 10 weeks and had to have bloods taken twice and an iv drip and they couldnt find the vain in one hand so tried the other and it took so many attempts to get the needle in....im dreeding the jabs but will try not to let on to her as she really picks up on other peoples stress! hope Nakita is better after hers! BTW what a beautiful name!!

Any way, Sam has been in sydney for a few days but is back tonight, ive been so lazy while he has been gone and have a ton of house work to do before he gets home so the house look half decent!! better get to it before grace wakes up....i managed to get her to sleep in her cot this arvo...yay me