Oh Silvi, you have the right to feel how u do and I agree with Nat try copy and pasting in the relationships section I have been in there and its really good. I also agree it's up to you cause whether to stay or not but it does seem abit like ur banging ur head against a brick wall even from his mum (it's hard for a mother to see the bad in her child sounds like denial - perhaps you should write down what's happened and how u feel not to necessarily send it on to his mum but even just for u could help u feel better letting it out and maybe write out a list of goals for yourself not unrealistic (or they can b) to help u get some focus back on u and Ty - I did this when I was in a similar situation and am proud to say I achieved all the goals listed and am in a totally different type of relationship now and to the point that I'm quite hard on my DH now but it was definately character building - I am a very strong minded woman now so it wasn't for nothing and I wouldn't change a thing but that's me - hope it helps oxxxo

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