How good does it feel to be able to wash and shave and blow dry and just pamper yourself?!?!?! And Neuri, it's perfectly okay for DH to look after Willa. He is her father after all.

I remember when Ardyn was 8 weeks old, DH gave me a voucher for a day at the spa. On the day that I was booked in to go, I started writing out a list of what Ardyn does, and she she does it. When her feeds are, and when she sleeps.........then I realised that he's her father, and he'll work it out. I trust him.

If it was a babysitter, I'd leave the list, but her father???..........he NEEDS to know how to look after her.

I regularly pop out for a few hours here and there. Or on the weekends DH sends me away to have a sleep while he looks after the girls. You've gotta do it for your sanity.