Hi girls,
Great to see that Brent and I were'nt the only one's never using contracetption. We have been together for 6 1/2 years and hardly used contraception. I was 17 when i first met him and not using contraception caught us out twice. I first fell pregnant when i was 17 and miscaried the pregnancy. Then again when i was 19. Due to circumstances we decided it was best to terminate the pregnancy.
After my first pregnancy i went on the pill for a while but decided it just did'nt agree with me. After the second time we just tried to be careful. Silly i know after what we had to decided to do with the second pregnancy. But after a while i was happy to fall pregnant. I always wanted to and was adament about going ahead with the first pregnancy even though it was not looked on nicely at all by my family. I guess because of this i was always scared to just let myself be happy about falling pregnant. There was always this wall holding me back deep down.
After i turned 21 i did'nt care at all. I had made the decision to just let things flow then. We were'nt going to actively try and have a baby but if it happened it happened. And sure enough 2 months after my 21'st birthday i fell pregnant with Briley. Obviously it was meant to be! Ofcourse at first i was met with the usual judgement from my family but i did'nt care. They adjusted after a while and now they love her! They even did the same thing when i fell with Colby. I did'nt give a hoot. I am a grown woman now and will make the decisions about when i want to have babies!
WOW! I can't believe i just blurted all that out. I really don't tell people too much about my mistakes. I suppose you just need to get it off your chest sometimes.
Now that i have typed all that Colby is awake!
BBL for personals!


When i weighed him Tuesday he was 4.8kg, 1kg up from birth. Good luck with your STAT. Which contraceptive? Means we'd have to be dtd.... lol No idea just yet. It was basically just timing and condoms before- or sadly, not dtd at all. 




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