hey me again, sorry haven't had time to read evrything, just b its & pieces. Thanks for the tip on the caffeine Lauren. We are all generally happier here when I don't have any. I even pay for small amounts of chocolate ... sigh...
if you wanted to know about it, speaking of cafeine, there is a dairy free choc called sweet william. it's quite good, but still caffeine...

have a lovely day everyone else, i'm thinking of you, just too tired to post properly!