Hiya Ladies..

Lauren: I would say give him time but seriously he had 9 months before he was born and now 14 months.. I;m sorry but its time to think of you and Ash. (please don't think I am being mean) I just think bugger what he wants now.. If you want him to know his Grandparents then go right ahead.. When the time comes and Ash asks who is Father os or why he doesn't have much to do with him tell him upfront.. Meeting the Grandparents will just be like you going to a mums group or something and meeting other people.. Ash doesn't have to go there without you.. Drop round for coffee from time to time.. ease into it.. I really hope things work out for Ash and your sake.

My father had every opportunity to get to know me as a child and he never did.. I re met him at my wedding 10 years ago and he still doesn't make an effort.. I haven't seen him for over 3 years and he only lives just over an hour away now.. I knew my Nanna.. I didn't see her much but I knew who she was.. I don't feel like I have missed out on anything great by not having my Father in my life.. I had my Grandfather who was like a father figure to me.. My mum did a wonderful job as a single mum as will you.. Rob has to understand as time goes on it gets harder and harder..

You are doing a wonderful job and I hope you get some great support from his family eveb if he isn't involved

Now I am off my soapbox :blush: (hope I haven't offended Lauren. If I have I don't mean to)

I am a very red girl tonight... We went to Agnes Waters (beach town) today with some people Simon work with.. very long hot but fantastic day.. I made triply sure the kids had sun cream on and I forgot myself.. *sigh* When we got home we went over to one of the guys houses for a swim and I was having a great time till Jacob threw something into the pool and split my eye brown open.. *woops* Danm it hurt.. It didn't need anything but a towel held to it or a while lol.. Jacob kissed it better and said I put a bandaid on it mummy then I take it off when it all better.. Such a sweet heart

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend...