Ali - Huge hugs to you. I know what you are going through, except Lorens whitching hours are between 9pm and midnight. I have come close the chucking bfing too for the very same reasons. Loren pulls off and bobs constantly and then at night (when the rest of the family are sleeping) she becomes so fidgety and hyper that I just can't settle her except to sleep with her in the sling. When I am totally exhausted and I have had enough of Loren's on again/off again business I formula feed.

Buzzie - A snuggle bed is like a tetra bed. Basically a small material bassinett type thing that goes in the cot or in bed with you.

Nic - DH has taken on looking after Sara a lot and he really does not spend much time with Loren. I really think the jump from 1 child to 2 has hit him big time.