after Monday i called off Tuesday..........
tried to do too much..... thought i was a failure....... NOW i realise the only thing i didnt do was take homemade potato and pumpkin chips out of oven (dh had 2 do this when got home to me sn absolute mess) but that i did do ther rest of dinner, made cookies, did at least 2 loads washing and hung out and folded and put away and cleaned kitchen................ oh and helped girl acoss road pack hospital bag (she got 2.5 wks too go)
Tuesday was a better day as i decided i wasnt doing anything but ended up with 2 lots visitors, load of nappies washed 2 loads foldedand washed my hair...oh and went OUT went 2 photo shop and visited friend....
oh and every day i write a dozen emails and buy and sell on ebay...
so gotta work out only plan has to be no plan
i napped kinda yesterday 2nd time since jem born....actually makes me more tired but will work on it
jem has one wake up then gets up between 5 and 6 so i have gone 4 walk with her most days once with the 3 dogs
though tonight is a later get up so she may sleep in so walk may be in arvo...

thanks so much for all the support, i am having total identity crises am so lost being at home with no routine, still have to work up towards a day i do nothing

survey coz i am confused:
what time is bedtime for everyones baby??
DOES your baby have a bedtime?
how long did it take bedtime to work?
what games do you play when baby awake?

today am going to SIL's for lunch and then grocery shopping ho hum.....