Kirsten!

Kel, yes, try a satin pillowcase, sewn into a smaller square, rather than one of those expensive "binkees" if it doesn't work. Ellie loves to cuddle something, and I put a pillow in beside her and she sleeps over it, I'll post up a photo. Since she's on her back, SIDS is not a problem.

My routine is more of a "its been x number of hours since last ... " So she must go for a nap after being awake for 4 hours, if she's tired earlier, she goes down earlier, but at four hours, she needs it. So if she naps 10.00-11.30am, she must go for a nap no later than 3.30pm. Bottles are 3 times a day, so that's not a problem.