need help
jemima wont go to sleep without pulling my hair........ i mean she will but it is an awful fight.
benji was up last night with her as she pulled a random midnight feed and then was pulling the fine bits of my hair that hurts heaps more than usual and i just COULDNT do it so benji took her and she cried and carried on and then eventually settled and went to sleep
but this is not cool
it is just her comfort thing she pulls at my hair with the hand that is about to go in her mouth so she thinks it is full of hair then sucks her 3rd and 4th finger til she goes to sleep the other hand sometimes continues to pull my hair which is what hurts........
i'm thinking a toy or silky fabric or something???
cant control cry her at the moment coz of teething and even not teething we just cant do it as i personally would hate to cry myself to sleep

ps - thanks heaps kym for saying i'm a good mummy, sometimes i feel like i am but sometimes i feel like i am doing the wrong thing by not forcing her into a routine etc but as i have found out she creates her own and i just go with the flow.... but all my friends are VERY pro routine which makes it hard or makes me feel silly....