LOL at 4hours! I wish tt going well I think? We are definately not pushing it and Matilda will come & grab DH's hand & take him to the toilet & then climb up, but do nothing. He still goes to encourage her & play on the toilet so its a fun place. She's done 3 poos now in a week which I think is amazing. Big girl bed didn't go so well, I couldn't get one on the spot & she is not very good at climbing in & out of the cot at home (we have a mattress next to it so she lands softly ](*,) ) So this week is the big day sleeps on the mattress. [-o< I'm so scared!!! ah well....going to make my way over to my thread