Hey Nik
Great news on the weight gain!
Sounds like you have finally got a great regime going, and you seem so much happier too.
I agree its so hard to know whats normal. I am constantly asking my s-i-l whether her boy did this or tthat etc!

Addy has decided that daytime sleep in no good unless I have her in the baby sling, I find it hard to get her to sleep in the daytime. She has a really unsettled period everyday in the afternoon and evening till she FINALLY goes to sleep about 10pm - sleeps 4-5 hrs (last night woke at 3am) then another 3 hrs stint usually. After her morning feed, she plays, then might catnap or occasionally a long sleep, after she wakes at lunch- I may have her only catnapping all arvo. She is def having a growth spurt at the moment though with feeding and unsettled more often!