Michelle that is exactly what I am going through with Matilda's eating. I do the same thing 20 minutes & if its not eaten we go to do the bath. After the bath if we haven't had dinner ready yet for us DH & I eat dinner & she usually comes up & has something like yogurt but if she hasn't eaten she gets her dinner reheated & if she doesn't eat then, she gets nothing.

I'm actually relieved to hear that I'm not the only one doing that LOL.... I felt so mean at first, but she was getting sooo bad with eating that we had to draw the line. We do know her favourite foods & I make those a few times a week to make sure eating dinner isn't always a horrible experience & to know that she will actually eat something, but I got tired of her turning everything down but spaghetti bolognaise.