Deb, I know he gets so frustrated that he can't tell us what he wants. He points and grunts and points and grunts. And we offer him different things we think he wants. It's tough. He also lashes out at Vivienne at times cause she gets in his face, or gets in his way, or plays with his things when he doesn't want her to. And the only way to let her know he's not happy is to whack her! She doesn't like it and carries on, but it gets the result he wants. Oh it's a fun game we play.

Deb, I can't believe you're 26w6d already. Where did the time go? As for the shower, I remember when I shared a place with my g/f who has a son who's now 12. He hated teh shower and would only have a bath. It was so annoying at times that I made a promise to myself to take my babies into the shower at an early age so they love it. I'm so glad they did. Just do it slowly. Blake still hates me washing his hair, but accepts it.