Ohh sorry that the wedding seems to be a bit of a battle, but Yeah TBH i think marriage is important. I dont suppose you can convince Dan that all marraiges aren't like his parents ??? Was he really young?? Dh's parents had a very nasty divorce when he was 14 but still believes there is such things as happy ones ( just not his parents LOL)
Remember anything worth having is worth fighting for!!!
you can always bounce ideas off us, if he doesnt want to be too invloved.