Well i am sitting here typing in tears... i am such a sook but am just not coping. Lucas will not sleep anywhere but my arms during the day. He is screaming when i put him in his cot and will just go on and on if i leave him so i pick him up and he goes to sleep but wakes and screams if i try and put him down. I dont want him to get used to it but dont know what else to do if i want him to sleep.

I was hoping to start this week fresh an have just spent half the day in tears...plus it is DH's birthday and all his family is coming for dinner.....i am just so confused with what to do.