happy 4 months lachlan and hopefully the positive experience between Lachlan and DF will help things along for all of you cause up until you wrote that I was in agreement with the other girls re DFs response just ahdn't got a chance to reply. Hopefully this is all a sign of some more relaxing enjoyable experiences ahead for you Dee - but do come back and vent and know in the back of your mind it will come to and end - days will get better and also know that siblings don't repeat the traits of the elder ones necessarily (just for future reference although I can imagine this is no where in your thoughts currently). BBL