Bath hunny, thanks!
I'm ok. It was my idea actually!As you all know we have been living in the van for 6 months and it's starting to get really tough. We have tried to get a house but there are no real estate agents that will give a house to us because of the children. Housing is no help as there are no houses big enough available.
We spoke to my aunts and they have agreed to us adding onto their house, unfortunately we need $80 grand to do that, so while I stay with my aunts, he will go home and get a job with his mate.

Thats only the basic idea, I cherish all your thoughts and best wishes. I'll still be talking to yous though