Tanya if Lucas cries when having a bath you could try putting the washer on his tummy and it should settle him down, this is what I've done with three of my kids and it seems to stop their crying straight away.

Jess sorry to hear about DH and yourself, but if thats what needs to be done then I hope it gets you what you want. Try not to stress to much and vent as much as you need.

Dee I can't believe that woman at the shops, I would have said something more then you did, you were more restrained then I (hugs).

Well I went to the MCHN on Friday and Cody is now 3754g, length 53.5cm. I also got told that he hasn't put on enough weight since he was born only 444g in 5 weeks but the thing is that at week 1 he only weight 3050g so he has been gaining slowly. So now I have to go in weekly for a while so they can keep an eye on his weight gain. Luckily in the last few days he has been more settled at night so I'm getting more sleep and feeling more human like.

Nic Bath mentioned that you went to a clairvoyant how did you find it? I'm planning on getting a reading done this week hopefully.

hugs xoxo