Nic, Jack and Charlee do sleep together. At the moment its in the porta cot but will move the big cot to my room on Wednesday when Rowen is home. I dont think separating them yet is an option as they seem to sleep very lightly, if at all when the other is not there. One will wake and scream and the other will carry on sleeping quite happily but as soon as the screamer is removed the other wakes up!Go figure!!! Seriously, just tell your friend that organisation will become her best friend! If I keep on top of things I am fine but I can see how people can get overwhelmed. But staying positive is the key. Good support is also a blessing! I would die without my mummy!