Just curious, when is the IR Rally?? If its tomorrow, i was thinking of going... today i have all 3 kids and cant make it... The kids wouldnt understand i would be standing up for their future...

Mel - i'd love to come see you!! Lunch sounds good

Jess

Neeny - im sorry your MIL's pulled out a the last minute, i had my SIL do that to me the other week (after we'd asked her 2 months in advance, she didnt even pull out, she just didnt rock up) even though we babysit all the time, and never ask her to return the favour. Anneliese is in daycare 2 days a week (mon and thurs) while the boys are in mon thurs and fri. Gives me a little break where i can go shopping, pay bills, have lunch without having to breastfeed through it... Its a treat for myself. And Anneliese loves it (and the daycare ladies love her!!) Good luck with whichever path you choose

Well, anneliese is STILL really sick (as is xander, declan's much better now...) Even her cry has been reduced to a miow, which means she's just exhausted... But she's been crying for 2 nights straight now (and almost all day yesterday) And i just cant handle holding her while she cry's like that. It makes me cry, as im so frustrated... im sorry to always whinge ladies...