Maya sorry to hear you felt that you had the only NORMAL child there... When FIL died I had to control two winkies and May was only 14 mths... She screamed when BHL went up to make a speech as she wanted to be with him... I was given one of the back rows as Mil thought it would be best if just she and her kids BHL and SIL sat at the frount with her... I am glad in away it was better for us... Lucky Oscar doesnt speck to much as resently when BHL fav uncle passed we went over to MILs and while BHL and her were talking about him they saud his name which was John... Anyway the second they said it May come out in the loudest voice ever...

John? John? John is knock knock knocking on hevens door....

BHL and I didnt know where to look, MIL just pursed her lips... now that I think about it was kinda funny.... Not that MIL would ever see it that way... I am sure John got a good laugh at it he had a soft spot for May... the thing is we had not told May he had died....

I guess what I am trying to do is tell you not to feel bad that you have a normal child... Children dont understand death the way we see it we see it as a time to reflect on a persons life... They just see a lot of Adults sad and crying which isnt normal for them so they either cry themselves or try to defuse the situation by talking and been nosiy...