yeah what an anti-climax Prama I was expecting it as well kehehe oh well typical media say one thing and mean another haha I should be used to it


Can I ask you all a question? Do you find you are the same person you were before you became a mum? or do you feel that you have changed? or does your husband feel that you have changed?

The reason I ask this is that my husband said to me this morning that I am not affectionate towards him and not the same woman he married. Now, for starters we have had my mother and brother staying with us for the past 4 weeks, and we aren't allowed to have sex until I am passed 6 weeks mark (doctors orders haha) and I get sooooo tired that I am just wanting to sleep all of the time or spend my waking hours feeding, burping etc So, yes i have neglected my husband but he is ALWAYS on his computer working, so cuddling up to him isn't something I can exactly do with the laptop in the way. Things will be better when my mum and brother move out tomorrow. I don't think I have changed, I mean I am more maternal and love being a mum, and DJ is top of my priority list, because I ahve to make sure he is fed, bum changed etc so thinking about others comes after DJ, he is now my top priority. Does that seem right, or is this the wrong attitude for me to have? I just want to know if I am doing something wrong.

Also, dealing with getting my body back etc doesn't help. Sure I stick in my belly especially yesterday for that current affair story, held it in so tight, but if I let go, well put it this way Doni refers me to being 1 month pregnant. I don't know about you all, but I don't like people saying that I am pregnant when I have just had a baby

Sorry for the vent, just wanted to find out what you all thought about this.....

Shell xxx