karen - how cute that Phoebe says you alright, Archie LOVES his "money" to, i am in no rush for him to stop having it though so its okay.

sheree - sounds like Wade needs a good stern talking too, have you explained to him that you both have to be as strict as each other with bedtime for it to wprk well? Jay has always been way softer with bed time and it was creating a monster but i spoke to him about it and he is better (but still too soft!)

nat - LOL, yep, talking does have its moments thats for sure, im loving it though, Em is a champion talker!

Archie managed to get 1 out of 2 wees in the potty this morning, i think he got EVERY fart into the potty he he he, but of course didn't make it for an actual poo, oh well he certainly is clued onto it anyway, if he misses the potty he still sits on it afterwards, and i never prompt him to go potty he goes of his own accord which is less stressful for both of us.