THANX girls, so lovely of u !!

So feel for Sheree, that is such a hard situation to be in & 2 face that later on afta avin a bub, oh my god. BUT so wonderful that baby is doin well !!! *** Sending massive positive vibes 2 her !!

Not the same as Sheree (no where nr as hard as her situation), .... BUT I had a breast cancer scare a wk b4 my 34th b'day (my Mum's sis was diagnosed at 38)... My partner at the time (a rich millionaire) said in these words 2 me - "No other man would want u wt a scare like that ". (As I had surgery, ... And luckily the Doc got it in time).

As for the idiot rich guy, I by chance had his sports car for a weekend wen he went on a business trip interstate ... And would u believe it I had my 1st eva car accident in THAT car... Yes, $5000 worth of damage. Geez, and I only scraped the side panel.

Funny though I felt g8 about it (pls note no one else ws involved in the accident). That relationship ws short lived, just as well I came to my senses early on in the peace.

My Adam now is such a beautiful man & he was so appalled wen I told him the short version of the story. Yeh, don't like to mention Ex's.

Oh Elissa I so envy u as my own Mother has & neva will visit me (let alone help out) as she has an illness where she can't travel out of her suburb. She lives well ova an hr from me. Sad that Cendrine will neva have her Grandma see her 1st hm let alone her nursery or bedroom later.

Since having Cendrine no one truely visits us here in Ballarat. Everyone is either 45mins to 5hrs away), so we av done all the travelling eva since Cendrine was 2wk old. Gotta tell u we are truely tired of it and i reckon we will cut back doin so this yr. Adams folks live 2 and half hrs away and only came 2 visit their only grandchild 2 or maybe 3times last yr. We visit them about every 2mths. The packing and unpacking kills me more then the travel there.

Do u girl's think I'm expecting too much ???

My own two sisters, ... came wen she was born in the hospital, another time to the house wen she ws 4wks old and the last time was 4 her 1st b''day party last early May !!

Would love some ideas & advice if you have any