yep, tara you will work it out... you figure it out as you go along, and when something isn't working a particular way, you change the way your doing it. Right at the moment I am having to learn how to parent a nearly teenager. Everything I have done to this point in parenting Laura I have to change - some thing slightly, others drastically... so just when I think I have a handle on something, I have to change what I do...add to the mix, parenting a nine year old boy (a whole different challenge in itself!!) and a toddler...I have three different parenting techniques on the hop... The only thing I can guarantee you is that it is never ever boring! lol... change is constant, it indicates growth as a person and individual...sometimes I would really appreciate a little less change, or a little longer to get my head wrapped around it before it changes again!

Just remember hun, that the only day you have any control over is the one your living in... Live in the now, and the future takes care of itself. hugs