dont worry girls, i'm on here all the time too. gives me something else to look forward to!
Gigi - i think you're right about dh and sd going to stay with rellies, it's a good idea. don't put any more stress on yourself. and venting is so healthy, so go right ahead. sometimes it just helps to say things out loud.
Nelly - sorry to hear you're a bit down...do you need some time off? or will that make things worse if you're sitting around not working?

I must have a little proud mummy brag - so i'm giving you fair warning if you don't feel like reading it:
Evie is the youngest by far in her swimming class, and every week the teacher says to me how clever she is and how she just gets things. and today she said 'she is just so gifted, you should be so proud'.
well, i was so chuffed, my smile nearly slid off my face!
thats all, thanks
also, i know Christy is, but is anyone else's bub starting to start waking in the night again? i actually managed to break the pattern of her coming into our bed in the middle of the night, but after getting up 4 times before 1230 last night i gave in, and now she's got a cold/or teething - i cant tell, i feel that i'll be doing it again tonight. Just wondering if there's a reason for them to start waking again...