I didnt even think about a doula to be honest. I was starting to study to be one but then fell pg with #2. As for having one myself, i dont really feel like i need it. I kinda just go inward anyways and i think it would be a waste of her time!
Everything was fine at the Dr today, i told him (completely unrelated) that my ear was giving me some trouble and he had a look and said it is completely blocked. so i had it syringed which made it worse. it is so unnerving not being able to hear. people at the shop were talking to me and i just stood there looking like an idiot so i started to cry LOL dh jumped in to help tho...but i still cried lol