Dragonbub,

I have the same issues with 'together time' as well. To add to the normal routine, DH is also a shift worker, so trying to plan anything around DD is a nightmare.. We went away for a night yesterday, stayed at my bro's house and needed to come home today to sleep as it just threw Kimberley's routine (well what you can call a routine) out the window.. Going from none to 1 feed a night to 3 ARGHHH.

However for me, there is light at the end of the tunnel.. My parents are moving within 2 hrs drive which I see as heaven and they are willing to babysit... (up until now we have lived different countries, 1 days drive and 4 days drive).. SO maybe together time will happen a bit more!! Good luck with smoothing things over..