actually while I am on a roll those of us with #2 do you find your hubby/partners are different this time round sought of disinterested in bubs Jase is driving me batty he does nothinig fo r Luke unless I ask... with Jack he did feeds galore always did his bath... changed his nappy played with him happy to hold, this time round I practically have to throw luke at him fo rhim to do anything he has done maybe 1/2 dozen feeds all up I have done every other one... he has only done one night feed but that doesn't bother me so much as he works out of the home... he has bathed him once I think and then it was me asking can you bath luke ... I still had to dress him, he will change him if he is whingy and I say he might be wet do you want to check...

anyway just wondering if they seem different this time round???