I hope those who are having a not so good day have a better afternoon/evening! We are doing ok, The self settling is starting to work a bit. I can see the benefits. I have like all things just made it work for me, I go in comfort her, then walk out. Head back in a few minutes if she hasn't settled and repeat. So far we have been able to do the process in about 10-15mins. I will admitt the first time I put her in the cot awake was awful!! I was so used to holding her to sleep. Well we will keep going. She is sleeping better though. Also I increased her feeds to the next level on the formula can so that helped I think too. Maybe it was a combination too big for the bassinett and a hungry tummy. I have caught up around home which always makes me feel better, I am one of those sad people who enjoy housework! I think for now I will do a few more little jobs and maybe have a nap myself. I am thinking of trying to swim a couple of times a week, before I was pg I used to all the time, we have 2 great pools in our complex and I contiued as long as I could while pg. I think I need to get back into it, good stress relief. Maybe I'll just aim for once a week. I'll have to wait till DH gets home and I tend to just make excuses, need to just do it!!