i hear yas on the MIL front...my MIL is a biatch!!!! every time we visit (which i try to only make once a week ) she takes Jack off me straight away, and now has started wanting to feed him if we are there at feed time.. well it ain't happening!!! i let her once reluctantly but god i couldn't give hime the boob any more don't think you are getting in our way of bottle time woman!!! (my thoughts) and changing his nappy.... she is overbearing!!! and she shiats me!! and she rings me during the week asking stupid questions which she already knows the answer to.. to see if she can weasle a visit in...ummm NOPE HE IS ASLEEP is ALWAYS my excuse