oh Teruteru, that sounds really tough, I'm sorry to hear it. Good luck with supporting DP through dropping his habit - does he have any other supports to help him do it? And venting is good, let it all out here - it's a good place for it

I don't have time for personals today - but have also been reading... g'day to everyone. We're having a BBQ catch-up with friends today - belated Xmas/NY catch-up, another friend dropping by this arvo, organised dog-walker this morning... then flying off to Tassie on Thurs to see my family. So it's all busy busy busy atm, but great fun.

I just did a bad mummy thing. Carefully shut the nursery door so dog & cat couldn't get in. 5 mins later hear muffled miaows... I'd shut the cat INSIDE the nursery! Oops!!!

Hope everyone is well and the gorgeous bubbas are happy little munchkins