Hugs to YOU LJ Stick with your boy (as if you wouldn't anyway!) and you'll both come out on top for it - just give it up to him, it won't be forever and when you look back you'll realise this time was only a matter of months, not the years following where things weren't as intense. Even though different challenges arise, those first few learning curve months are packed with hormones, emotions, physically draining attention-giving, not enough nurturing from your partner - in many cases, not all, though it's also true for me - and your little person can't even say the words to form a "thank you". It's the 'wins' that carried me through, especially through the tongue tie and establishing BFing after the TT snip. Hang onto your 'wins' cos sometimes they're all you have!!