Girls I'm going to close this thread & start a new one now. I'm going to put a mod hat on & say I know that things have been very tough in this thread over the past few days. Please try to understand that these are public forums & we don't want to shut anyone out. Anything that happens off the forums should stay there. I know its hard to trust people in this situation, but I don't think Sharleen would want everyone on edge about it.