I was so mad yesterday! The friggin next door neighbours came over to see the baby again and the 7 and 8 yr old wanted to take turns holding her.I let them have a hold but told the mother we are going out for tea and need to get ready.Ruby was due for a sleep and got tired and cranky and started crying,the stupid woman said to the little girls just hold her and she will settle,she didnt and ruby was getting way upset so i took ruby off them and said im going to change her hoping theyd get the drift.Ruby calmed down once with me and once changed i then gave her to hubby so they couldnt touch her again.The stupid woman then went and took her off my hubby!!! I was spittin it and aaron was spittin it at me because he was no help whatsoever.I ended up barking orders to get ready and they wouldnt leave until we left our own house to go out.It spoilt the whole arvo for me as i was stressed and annoyed still and too top it off ruby didnt sleep till 9pm that night and was cluster feeding and crying whilst we were at mum and dads.
Then aaron and i had an argument when we got home.I asked him to turn on a lamp like it was a huge thing to ask!!! He then proceeded to throw in my face that he helps me heaps and i dont appreciate it and blah,blah. I could have punched him out!! They dont realise that we need emotional support,not just physical help but im ungrateful apparently.
Thankgod hes gone to work and the neighbours kids are at school.A day of friggin peace.
Sorry to whinge,have no one else!!