thank you all so much again for your advice.
I bought one that has a light blue base and attatchments. I had a manual one but I get arthirits in my hands and they were killing me after wards. this one is battery and power operated...cheap and nasty (just like me ) $19.95 plus $16 postage
My BIL and his wife had a m/c yesterday at 12weeks so they wer ein having a D&C today. BIL aske dme not to ring his wife so was bit upset with him as she was the first one to ring me when I m/c the twins..hmmm IM over alot of things atm, so over bull$hit its not funny!