Awww Vixstar huge hugs coming your way. Feel free to rant as much as you like, it is absolutely awful that the dr did this. I think you should change gp's and get someone who knows what they are doing. I hope that everything goes ok at the us. As Shell said, is there anyone else who can come. I know it sucks that Rick cant come but maybe if you had someone look after Bailey for you and help look after you and hold your hand? If not just let the US clinic know that you will be bringing in Bailey by yourself they may be fine with it. When I had to have my us they were fine with me bringing in the kids by myself. I really hope that this all gets sorted out for you.

Love