Well, vent away whenever you need it Noni, that's what we're all here for! And that info is there in case you ever decide it's a good idea...likewise anyone else who is reading the thread who might be secretly not coping. We all go there sometimes.

OK, well E sleep well until about 4 am when DH decided she wanted to play so instead of settling her back to sleep he kept her up...!!!!! WTF, that's not teaching her to sleep!!!