Thanks all of you but specially snacks.. made me cry when I read your encouragement. trying so hard to be strong and not complain. just so want to give this baby and myself the best chances for having a great birth. Also Naomi you have set me off a couple of times too, with your thoughtful comments. I don't see the point of much self pity, we all deal with the hand we r dealt and I won't mope if this ends up in a ceasar if that is what it takes to get a healthy baby and healthy mummy, but it is really nice to have the support and understanding and encouragement, otherwise it is a very isolating experience. I concur with what someone said the other day. I don't know how women coped before the internet!!!

So to all of you thankyou for listening and encouraging whilst I wait, wouldn't do it without you.

Bella