Hi Willow! I'd be really interested in that article. But yeah, I don't think I'll do anything unless it becomes a real problem and she starts waking every 40 minutes at night or something. In my book I wouldn't really label her with a "sleep problem". And who can blame them for wanting a nice warm drink before bedtime? The only issue with it is it's starting to make it more difficult for DH to settle her since he doesn't have a boob! And you're right - if they're going to be shy they're going to be shy. Which doesn't worry me - I'm not the most gregarious person myself. But one of her grandmothers is extremely shy to the extent that she has a bit of a social phobia which I wouldn't want Matilda to suffer. I guess we'll just have to give her lots of TLC so she knows she's fabulous!