Yeah we have had bad sleep from the start. I am so much happier and feel more well rested since I gave up worrying about it and trying to change it. I can't change her so I give up! I go to bed early to get as much sleep as possible. And after the first wake-up she's usually in bed with us so I just have to be semi-awake to feed her. I didn't like cosleeping when she was younger coz it was so uncomfy so I didn't get much sleep. But now she's bigger I'm not worried about her getting squashed or anything, she wouldn't let us do that! So I face away from her all night (she's in the middle) and it's much better, don't even know she's there.

Just had mum here today and she doesn't get it either, all her kids slept through from 4 months, blah blah, not helpful!!!! Oh well, we are raising happy confident babies, it will pay off