Sunshine - glad you're getting some answers! With ds1 it took about 4-5 days for the medication to take effect properly so keep on hanging in there and persevering with it! Do you have her cot raised? Phonebooks under the legs of the cot helped us as well.
Keep chiro in the back of your mind, it's supposed to help heaps for reflux. Logan is now burping like a trouper after each feed which is great! He's still having trouble getting farts out though.... not like dh and ds!

Anyway, all good this end with the new addition. Ds1 however has turned into a right little *****!!! He's usually a really gentle kid but the last few weeks has been hitting and pushing friends and their younger siblings. Today was the final straw when he hit his friends younger brother with a toy in the mouth and made him bleed! God knows what I'm going to do with him