i find iam willing to get help from some people(g/f sil) but others i cant say yes to because i feel i will have to re do it all as well (mum mil)but i get angry because when my best gf had her babies i was always there helping and now its my turn she has just about dissapeared off the face of the earth. so i am now at the point where i am selective to who i help, so its not thrown back in my face.(very selfish i know)
am also having this problem with my wedding plans. not just baby stuff