I am trying to get better at this but I don't know. I am learning to rely on my closest friends (some more than others, but its just a comfort thing) and my SIL. I used to have a problem asking anyone to look after Paris, but now I am getting better and don't have a problem asking if Marc & I need some QT. But who knows if I am sick, for some reason I prefer Marc to come home and look after both of us rather than Paris go somewhere else. Emotional support, I find that difficult. I find it difficult as I feel I am burdening people with my issues, and second to that I think I have had too many situations in the past where I was treated like I needed to get over it or that it was a hassle for them so I think I only do that with maybe 1 or 2 friends. And its not their fault as those who burnt me in the past are no longer in my life but I still find it hard sometimes. So I guess it really depends on who the person is and what the support is for. But as far as being the supporter I would say that I try and be there for everyone. I don't know who wants to rate me LOL! Kelly? LOL!
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