I would rate myself pretty low too, if people offer I don't normally say no, depending on who is doing the asking and what they are wanting to do but I don't like to ask cause I think that others have lives as well.

If I am sick I try to get by but there was once where I had to call my MIL to come and get Kameron when he was a baby and he stayed there for about 3 nights, till i begged Andrew to go and get him even though I was still pretty crook, and I have only called Andrew home from work once I think but that was a Saturday and I was hung over 8-[

But yeah doing the dishes/washing clothes/etc then nope I dont normally ask unless it is Andrew.

Although I did let my SIL who dropped in unexpectedly help clean the house once.

Love