I was just reading this thread and totally agree with the smoking thing and i also saw the sids thing on the news today. What i don't understand that if studies have shown that 90% of babies who die from sids come from the mother who smoked while pregnany WHY do mothers smoke while pregnant. It makes no sense to me at all.

When my sil had my nephew my mil was nursing him feeding him a bottle and having a smoke at the same time. It made me sick.. I told my husband not only will she not be holding our kids while smoking but she will not be smoking in the same room as our children. I can't believe that my sil had no worries with this she just did not care.

sorry for the rant just wanted to say my opinion sorry if i offend anyone it was not my intention.

Nikki