Baby Alexander - born and died 28-04-08

**Mel1977** · May 5th, 2008, 07:14 PM

Danek - I am so very sorry to hear about your son Alexander

My heart breaks to read of another precious baby growing wings. You have shown so much strength to be able to post your story here. Unfortunately I also know your pain as I lost my son Nicholas at 36w1d. I remember his funeral as almost like an out of body experience, like it was someone else and I was just watching. Wednesday is going to be one of the hardest things you will ever have to do but know that Alexander will be with you guiding you through, every step of the way.

Please know that we are all here for you whenever you need us, I personally found BB to be the one place I could go for unconditional support and I hope you find some comfort here also.

Take care, big

and thinking of you on Wednesday.

Mel

**MsPink** · May 5th, 2008, 08:12 PM

I am so so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Alex.

My thoughts are with you and your family...

**Lissie** · May 5th, 2008, 09:38 PM

I am so truly sorry for the loss of your dear son Alex - this is unimaginable - my thoughts are with you and your family. Life is so unfair sometimes.

Enchanted · May 5th, 2008, 09:48 PM

I am so sorry to hear that your sweet boy has grown wings.

There is nothing anyone can say to ease your pain but I hope you are able to find solace in all these gorgeous women surrounding and supporting you through this heartbreaking time

**MeredithD** · May 5th, 2008, 10:48 PM

Danek - I am so so sorry for the loss of your precious son Alexander. Nothing I can say seems enough at this tragic time.I can only imagine the hell you are living right now. I have lost 4 babies but none so far along when no one expects anything to go wrong. I truly hope you can get some sort of answers as to why. I know it will not bring Alexander back but it may help bring some closure.
Wishing you strength to get through Wednesday and I hope you will have supportive friends and family to hold you.
I also hope you can take some comfort in talking to other women who have lost as you have. You will need to speak to others who truly understand

**Lou Lou** · May 5th, 2008, 11:12 PM

Danek, I am so sad to hear about your loss. I hope you find strength in your nearest and dearest, you have already been through so much. My heart goes out to you for Wednesday and of course, the other days following

**LimeSlice** · May 6th, 2008, 03:09 AM

**jlk** · May 6th, 2008, 11:49 AM

I am so sorry, words just escape me at the moment. {{{HUGS}}} to you & I'll be thinking of you and your family

**Hammi** · May 6th, 2008, 12:15 PM

Oh no Danek, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Alexander. May he rest in peace and watch over you and your DH.

**krisp** · May 6th, 2008, 02:17 PM

I feel so desperate for you. My heart aches thinking how you must be feeling. Please be kind to yourself.

**Snacks** · May 6th, 2008, 02:44 PM

Danek, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little boy. My heart goes out to you.

**Snoopea** · May 6th, 2008, 02:49 PM

I'm so very sorry to hear of the terrible news of your beautiful son Alexander.

**BekZ** · May 6th, 2008, 02:57 PM

Danek - I am so sorry for the loss of baby Alexander. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please take care of your self and drop in here to BB whenever you just need to vent or chat. Take care hon

**daisy** · May 6th, 2008, 04:28 PM

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Sending you many hugs.

**Spring Angel** · May 6th, 2008, 08:13 PM

Danek: Thinking of you and your family tomorrow as you lay your angel to rest. I will light a candle for your precious little Alexander.

Lv Spring

**Spring Angel** · May 7th, 2008, 08:28 AM

Danek: As you lay precious little Alexander to rest today, please know that he will never be forgotten and will always be in a special little place in my heart reserved for Angels. I hope it brings you comfort to know I've had a chat to Harry and he is going to look after you boy.

I only hope today helps you begin to heal.

With support and understanding.
Lv Spring

**Sueby** · May 7th, 2008, 08:35 AM

Hi Danek,
I have tears in my eyes I cannot imagine going through what you are going through. Thinking of you today.
Thankyou for sharing your story hopefully we can support you through this emotional journey
Big Hugs

**danek** · May 10th, 2008, 06:01 AM

Thank you all for such kind messages.

Perhaps its the anonymity of this forum or delerium from lack of sleep that is letting me be so honest and open about my feelings at this time. It is too difficult to share these thoughts with people face to face. It is also great to have somewhere to go at all hours of the night when I can't phone family and friends who are sleeping.

I'm sorry to burden you with my sadness but perhaps in a small way it might be able to help someone else who may be experiencing a loss.