Ali - I am so sorry to hear of your losses, and back to back losses are terribly difficult. I had two losses in a row, one in Oct 06 & Sep 07. We actually did some tests after our second loss as I was quite hesitant to try again until I knew everything was ok as I just couldn't face another loss. After all of the tests and a 4 month break (which didn't really give us any answers or even clues) we tried again (this time I took clomid) and it seems we're third time lucky.

My heart really goes out to you - the pain I remember going through was just unbearable and it brings a tear to my eye to know that there are lots of other people who go through it (and worse).

I found having a really supportive & capable ob/gyn really helped us believe that we would have a forever baby one day.

Sending you a huge hug.