your words sound all too devastatingly familiar, I am so sorry for your and your wifes loss. To come so far and to have your daughter taken away is just so cruel, no words can describe the feeling. I am only two months into my journey after the loss of my daughter Phoebe, my pregnancy was almost perfect, if one could be, so I am feeling your loss as though it were my own. I know no amount of words can comfort how you are feeling, I guess just take heart (if you can) in knowing that you, your wife and daughter are in teh thoughts of so many here at BB.